The Still Point with Charity Murphy

The Still Point with Charity Murphy

The Bridge Between Us

When your heart offers everything—and they still choose another path.

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Charity Murphy
Oct 20, 2025
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Dear Beautiful Soul,

There are moments in life when your heart stretches wide to help someone...
only to watch them walk away.

You offer options. You make the calls. You clear space in your life and your heart to give them safety, shelter, or stability.
And then—
They choose the very path you were trying to protect them from.

It’s one of the most painful things about being someone who feels deeply and cares naturally:
You can’t always make someone take the help they need.

This week, I tried to help someone I barely knew.
She needed everything—shelter, direction, safety—and I did everything I could to offer it. But at the end of the day, she walked away. She chose something else. Something harder, riskier, and in my eyes—so deeply heartbreaking.

I didn’t expect to feel so gutted by it. But I did.

And it reminded me: Helping has limits. Even love does.

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